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December 6, 2020 Brianna Nicole Austin no responses

Divorce and The Right

Divorce and the right deved into what is and what is feared. Fear is what it is, but can sometimes become what you make it. The religious right is so afraid that gays are infecting society and indoctrinating their children, and deteriorating marriage, but yet it is their fear that is the culprit, not the communities that they are afraid of. Could it be that the GLBT communities have and continue to be converting all the little boys and girls of the world? Not! 

Historically, it is the religious right that tirelessly works to indoctrinate and convert people, not the GLBT communities. Still, it is understandable why they would make such a claim: people tend to fear in others that which they see most in themselves.

Science continues to reveal that GLBT is a biological trait, not a learned or acquired taste (no pun intended). The book by Zhou J.-N, Hofman M.A, Gooren L.J, Swaab D.F “ A Sex Difference in the Human Brain and its Relation to Transsexuality (1997 ) states, “gender identity develops as a result of an interaction between the developing brain and sex hormones,” and researcher Brian Mustanski Ph.D. (a psychologist at the University of Illinois at Chicago ) more recently said about homosexuality that “It builds on previous studies that have consistently found evidence of genetic influence on sexual orientation.” (Fox Jan 28, 2005)

Divorce and The Right

But either the right doesn’t get it or doesn’t want to hear it. They rant that being GLBT is “Un-natural,” yet when GLBT behavior was discovered throughout the animal kingdom, they change the topic, now stating that it is the GLBT platform to use the animal kingdom to mislead, while it was the Right who brought up the argument in the first place when it suited them, and until it was proven wrong.

All my life I listened to stories about the poor guy (or woman) who had a mid-life crisis and left his/her marriage, and in recent years I became one of them. It is traumatic, causing pain and suffering to all concerned. But, it wasn’t a mid-life crisis; I had a mid-life awakening. Children are told who they are, should be, and what will make them happy for so long that the ideas and pre-expectations of others become their own. But in time — maybe a month, a year, even decades later — you eventually wake up to realize that you have been an actor in a play written by someone else. Sure, there was a time when children dutifully followed doctrine without question. But, people also believed the world was flat and that witches should be burned at the stake, so what? Things change. Of course,, children still need guidance, but they also need encouragement to discover who they are according to them, rather than being held to some preordained script.

Humans need to control things, so we attempt in our arrogance to orchestrate a concert of wild things. But, life has its rhythm; it’s not ours to control. We still know so little about the wonder of it, our purpose on this Earth, or what – if anything – follows our time here, that it is simply pompous for any one group to believe they have a monopoly on the truth. With global communication, knowledge, and ideas expanding, children are educating and thinking for themselves. And it is only when our children can marry knowing who they are, by clear and free choice; rather than guilt, fear, or obligation, that those marriages will last and divorce rates will plummet. And isn’t that the goal? Shouldn’t it be?

The right should stop looking for the devil in every shadow and embrace the beauty that exists in the diversity of all things. That is where Eden lies. At the very least they should accept the concept of live and let live. They are free to believe and live as they choose, shouldn’t others have the same right? It’s not always that someone who disagrees with you “doesn’t get it,” sometimes they do, but just disagree.  So in the words of Lao Tzu: Live your beliefs, rather than worrying about how to spread them or convince others of their validity.


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Brianna Nicole Austin is an author, writer, columnist and journalist and editor of from New York City, now living abroad.
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