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Nicole Austin
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Commentary

Essays

31 entries

These are the pieces I return to: essays about identity, language, fear and belonging, written to be thought about rather than skimmed. Some are decades old and still true. Others were written last month. None of them are news.

Essays

Tell Her The Truth

October 11, 2026

Many crossdressers learn to become liars and manipulators of the truth to avoid the humiliation of having their secret discovered. Who Are You Really…

Essays

The Pill

October 5, 2026

In this personal essay, Brianna Austin recalls a question she read some 20 years earlier: would you take a pill that removed your desire…

Essays

The Life You Choose

October 1, 2026

Some view being transgender as a gift, while others view it as a curse. Do you feel you’re a victim of the transgender condition? …

Essays

Play It Again Sam-antha

September 30, 2026

The second precept from the Precepts of the Order of Inner-being (Buddha) says, “ Do not think that knowledge you presently possess is changeless,…

Commentary

A Practical Guide to Coming Out

September 26, 2026

Coming out is more than a single announcement—it is a profound, lifelong path. This guide helps you navigate the emotional, personal, and social realities…

Essays

Becoming A Woman

September 17, 2026

Do you dream of becoming a woman and living it 24/7?  Is it reality or fantasy that drives you? Many of us have fantasized…

Commentary

The Words of Others

September 10, 2026

The words of others don’t define me. How could they? In many instances, those “others” don’t even know me. They see me and then…

Essays

Someone Else’s Story

September 2, 2026

At a time when transgender attention in the mainstream is on the rise, have we as individuals stopped searching out our own truths? Have…

Common questions

What makes a piece an essay rather than commentary?

An essay argues or reflects rather than reports. It is built around an idea — what womanhood means, why we reach for boxes, who gets to speak — instead of around an event that happened this week.

Where should I start?

Defining Womanhood and Boxes Defining Transgender People are the two most-read entry points. Where Is The Transgender Voice is the oldest piece here and still the one I get the most mail about.

Are these written for transgender readers or for everyone?

Both. I write assuming a reader who is curious and decent but not necessarily informed, which means I explain things without talking down to the people already living them.

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